In some sad news recently in Utah State there have been 3
recent BASE jumping deaths in their famous southern Zion National Park. If you
aren’t aware what
Base jumping is, it is a sport where you jump off with a parachute
from different tall structures. The acronym comes from B for building, A for antennae,
S for span, and E for earth.
Basically it’s finding the tallest places all over the
world, climbing up to the top and jumping off. Kind of like when you were a kid
and playing Superman off the couch or the top of your bunk bed. A lot of base
jumpers play it legal and only jump in places that they have permission to, but
many get a thrill of doing jumps from buildings and parks where they know it’s
not allowed. You can get a bit of attention if you successfully climb and jump
off a popular or famous place like the Eiffel Tower or the Empire State
Building. Base jumping is illegal in
Zion’s National Park.
I get it, it’s a thrill, an adrenalin rush to evade the
authorities and be somewhere you aren’t allowed then the thrill of doing the
jump, having your buddy film it with his camera and post the video online. You
can then relive your death defying moves over and over, while getting a little public
notoriety among your peers or the public. It’s risky. They know it. It’s part
of the adventure and for some people it’s addicting. I’ve never really
understood it because I don’t enjoy the feeling of panic and fear. The adrenalin
addiction for some people, though, has actually been studied as an actual, you
know…..addiction.
One person who died was on her honeymoon, just a couple
weeks after her wedding. A whole life ahead of them now cut short. Another was
a well-known jumper among those who do the sport, and his wife was pregnant,
expecting their first child. The friend of the other man who died told the
reporter that he had 5 of his friends who had died in the last year also from
base jumping accidents but that
"he will continue to pursue the sport he loves"
As I read thru a few notes on the comments section it was
said that it was comforting to know “he died doing what he loved”.
Hmmm. Well, you see, I have a bit of a problem with that.
Now I might upset a few people if you really really love getting a personal
thrill at risking your life for the sake of your recreation.
I find it incredibly selfish.
It is selfish on so
many, many levels. That comfort will be pretty hollow for that mother when her baby
comes into the world and he isn’t there to share that moment with his wife. That
comfort won’t help the parents of the young woman now left with only memories
of a life cut short. Losing a child is the biggest hurt, I’ve been told. So,
yes it’s a selfish sport. The
price they paid for adrenalin was pretty big.
Now while I don’t think you need to sit back and wrap
yourself in bubble wrap for the rest of eternity, there are some sports that
are entirely developed to defy death and attain that adrenalin rush. So sure,
go out and have fun. Push yourself a little. Live life to the fullest.
But, if I die “doing what I love” it’s not going to be alone
with a parachute jumping off something big. What I love is my family: My kids,
my grandkids, my husband, my siblings and parents, my friends. If I die “doing
what I love” and what really matters, it's going to be helping others and making a difference
in someone’s life. If I go out in the
middle of baking a big ‘ol pie for someone I love, I will have died “doing what
I love”. If I die caring for my parents or speeding to get to my grandbabies
birth, I will have “died doing what I love”.
So what is it that you would be doing if you “die doing what
you love”?